MY FRIENDS....

GOD has created us and he gave us everything , including our relatives , but FRIENDS.. he let us to choose them..

Its 29 years and 6 months in this world and i dedicate this post to all my friends whom i am going to list down who made a difference in my life and friends who didnt make .. lolz.. i am writing about all my friends.. the best ones who stood by me when i needed them the most and who know me in and out , who always understood me , beared all the pain that i gave them..
(guys , if you are not there in the list pls dont get offended cause you are important to me but i am writing about people for whom i am important too.. ) lets goo..

1. PRAKASH . R

I met this guy somewhere in 1997 , its almost ten years by now. He is a friend , a brother and a guide to me.. I really adore this guy for the patience he has.. he never got angry with me even though i gave him hell a lot of reasons to get angry.. but he never. .not even once.. his smile is one among the many you would notice when you see him. all my friends smile from their hearts (if they dont , they are not my friends) and this guy is unique.. he gives importance to everyone in his life and he takes care that no one gets hurt or offended.. I used to spend most of my time with him and his family as those days i was still studying and working.. whtever free time i would get i would spend with him.. i still remember the evenings we spent on the marina beach.. we would go for a drive or a walk.. eat some chats over there.. what a fun we had.. his family also treated me like their own son even though i miserably failed to keep it up.. this guy used to take me to all his relatives place. market , movies , to his friends places too.. man , he never let me feel lonely as i was away from my parents.. i borrowed money from him a lot of times which i never gave him back ..i hugged him and cried a lot somedays.. i never hide anything from him.. i learnt a lot of things from this guy .. to be calm and cool , to understand and analyse things.. i can say i became bit matured being with this guy.. one thing i forgot to tell is.. the way he says when you call him.. "hello prakash here" .. though we dont keep in touch that regularly these days.. i know i can count on him come what might and he will be there for me for a life time.. THANKS PRAKASH FOR BEING AN ANGEL KIND OF FRIEND TO ME.. LOVE U LOTS...

2. KR.VISWANATHAN..

hmm.. vichchu or krv as we fondly call him.. is a very sweet and caring guy.. there is only one difference between prakash and krv .. prakash is very frank and straightforward and this guy hesitates a lot to talk things frankly.. he is very careful so that none of his words or actions doesnt hurt anyone.. krv always used to forget my birthday .. for many years and everytime i fight with him like hell for forgetting my birthday.. pavam vichchu.. he was never able to convince me.. one point to be noted is that i met prakash through krv only.. this guy is very planned.. he plans everything in his life and he is shy to the core.. we used to pull his legs like anything.. i used to discuss all my problems with him and he used to give the best suggestions.. thanks for being there vichchu.. love u lots too..

3. MALINI PARTHASARATHY..

She was the first ever girl who was a friend to me.. i met her in my first year examination hall .. we were placed next to next and the tables used to change everyday but our places never change... the third day i was on my way to the exam hall and my bike miserably let me down.. i was half an hour late.. and as soon as i reached my room instead of looking for my roll no i started looking for this girl (unknowingly).. she looked at me and i looked at her.. i went straight and sat next to her..wrote my exam and another two days went by just like that.. the 5th and final day came .. we finished our exam and we were about to leave.. somehow i gathered all my guts and gave my phone number to her.. she called me after 11 days.. and thats how our friendship started.. she was very caring and very affectionate.. we have lots of memories to cherish.. after a year and half she got married and lost touch after that as she got settled in dubai.. i dont have her email id or no source of contact though.. i still remember her.. i know that she would be praying for me and she still remembers me .. hope to meet her sometime before i end ..my best buddy ever.. malini parthasarathy...

4. DEEPTHI . R. NAIR

The one girl who changed my life forever... she has a very sweet voice and a very sweet heart.. its tough to understand her but she is lovable.. if i have reached great heights in my career today , if i have bought a flat in mumbai .. the primary reason is deepu only.. she hates me for no fault of mine.. but i will be grateful to her.. to err is human to forgive is divine.. my love n prayers are always there with you deepu.. keep smiling and have a great life ahead...



5. SUKANYA MAYURI GOGOI..

i met this girl on the net in 2002.. she was doing her 2nd year in computers.. we hit off like a house on fire.. we met few times and we were like the same.. she was full of fun and masti.. we used to go for long drives and we used to sing songs no matter where we are.. i still remember that day we were going through the heavy traffic of nelson manickam road and we were singing zindagi ek safar ye suhaana on the top of our voices.. ha ha.. everyone was looking at us but nothing stopped us.. we used to meet whenever possible and every weekend we used to catch up with the latest movies in town.. lunch , dinner, icecreams.. beach.. she loves beach.. we used to fight a lot too at the same time.. she used to hit me like anything.. we had a great time together but then destiny had something else in store for us.. she left to bangalore after 2 years and we had a big fight before she left.. everyday i still repent why i fought with her cause a good friendship came to an end..i mailed her a lot of times but somehow she never seems to forgive me.. i am sorry for hurting you suku.. my prayers are always there with you.. there are some mistakes which we cant undo.. and this one was the biggest one of mine..

6. A.RAVISHANKAR

we were classmates from 2nd standard and studied together till 10th.. after that we used to keep in touch but not very often.. but for the past 5 years we are in regular touch.. he is a no nonsense and a big NO senti guy.. exactly opposite to me.. i often used to wonder why i am not like him.. if i were like him i could have avoided lots of heartbreaks.. but i am made like this.. he is a very sweet guy and handsome too.. he knows about all my girlfriends and he still asks me how come i remember all the names without forgetting even one.. he is a self-made person and i really admire him the way he has come up in life .. we two are the guys who never took any support from anyone.. and maybe thats why we bond together very well.. he is happily married and blessed with a kid now.. love u lots ravi..

7. RAMYA JEYARAMAN

this girl is so sweet with a cool attitude.. if ever i took any suggestion or advice from any girl in my life .. that is ramya.. she always pulls my leg and she pulls me out from anykind of mess i am in.. she is not tired of guiding me nor i am.. but i think i have matured enough so that i dont trouble her that often now.. we must have met only once till now but we keep in touch through phone.. this girl was there when i was feeling so depressed and let down in life besides me and she was the one who helped me come out of that pain.. i owe her a lots in my life.. i like the way she calls me "oye hero" and the way she tells 'chal chal hawa aane de" the way she calls me "ram' is so unique.. it always mixed with a smile.. you are so great ramya.. maybe GOD has sent down Angels like you to help people like me.. thanks for being there.. love u lots ..

8. VIDYA CHANDRASEKHARAN

hmm.. what to tell about this girl.. she is so damn sweet.. even though its a very short time since we know each other we became good friends.. i was actually lost the spice to live this life and was heading towards something else in mah life.. but this girl turned everything upside down and bruoght back my smiles and showed me a new path to live.. thats why i call her angel in disguise.. she cares a lot man.. she smiles from the heart.. and the way she scolds me makes me do the same silly mistakes again and again.. she is very special to me and i owe all my smiles to her.. if today i am all smiles and if i am so full of life the only reason is vidya ony.. and i would do anything for her happiness and smiles.. thanks for being there vidya.. i dont know what destiny has in store for our friendship as i am bit unlucky in retaining friends.. but you will have a special place as a special friend .. i hope this friendship continues for a life time.. i wish her a happy married life and a great future ahead with her soul mate.. my love n prayers are always there for you..

9. PREETI VENUGOPALAN..

preeti or kutties is a very innocent girl , who actually doesnt know what she wants but thinks she knows everything.. sometimes she acts so stupid and at the same time she acts so weird.. the one unique thing about her is the way she laughs.. she loves her parents a lot.. specially her mom.. she is a goal oriented girl and a little senti.. she is so intelligent and smart (thats what she thinks) but yes to some extent..she is kind and caring too.. i think no one can point fingers at her cause she is a perfectionist to the core.. the one thing she is not able to improve is to gain weight.. she is still the same thin preethi. (ketta slim nu solluvanga) thanks a lot preethi for being there .. my prayers are always there for you.

ALL the above mentioned people are the ones who made a difference in my life at some point of time and without whom i wouldnt have been what i am today.. for whom i would do anything in my life withouth giving a thought.. who mean a lot to me.. who are very special to me.. i am happy that i met you people in mah life.. thanks is not the right word for you people.. LOVE YOU LOTS...

me , myself...

this blog is dedicated to Kadambari Iyer (whom i dont even know or for whom i dont even exist) i happened to see her blog and got highly inspired to write on for my own.. thank u kadambari iyer. wait wait.. i said inspired.. i didnt copy.. the below content is all mine.. i just needed some inspiration thats it.. now u can carry on.. go go goo...





That was a friday morning , the date was feb 17th (god why was that 3 day delay , huh?) and the year was 1978 and the time was 09.32 a.m (i had to know this as they have already started searching for mah prey.. ya ya.. a girl only) .. the world was destined to see the most funniest , craziest and what not guy , thats when i was born. by now you must have come to know that i am a good story teller.. this habit of mine started from my school days..ever since i started telling stories to my mom why i was late from school . ok my name is ramana.. sadhu naga venkata ramana.. girls call me ram.. i still dont know why they prefer calling me that way.. seriously.. baki sab call me ramanNa.. ya with one N more.. no one but my parents and few friends got it right.. ( i have to be very careful and see to that i dont write anything like kadambari ) i was born introvert .. i was a very shy guy in my school days.. i would talk only to few guys and girls a strictly no.. after my 12th i started working and i realised how introvert i was and it wasnt helping me to get ahead in life.. thats when i started speaking my heart out.. i started talking talking and talking and people loved it and they still love when i talk.. i sometimes talk nonsense but that too in a way that people dont realise that i am talking nonsense.. maybe i talk to people only who are interested.. normally when u look at me i might seem as a serious guy but i am not.. i am full of fun .. i later realised that happiness is not in keeping youself happy but in making others happy..

to understand what is pain.. one should go through it.. and i had been through hell and i am still into it.. and thats why i make it a point that i dont hurt others.. intentionally or unintentionally..
the main reason for ur pain is ur heart.. love.. god has made only two mistakes in his life.. one is to create human with this fragile heart.. and two is teaching it to fall in love..


i was basically a tough guy , who didn't have sentiments , who was very practical.. but things changed and i became exactly the opposite. .maybe god wanted me to go through this pain so that i can understand others pain and help them get out of it.. yes i do counselling for lot of my friends and i can say that they are out of that pain.. i still wonder when i could get my friends out of this pain.. why am i not able to come out of it.. still a million dollar question to me.. some people say that i am happy living with this pain.. somesay that i dont wanna come out of it.. i say.. i am like this..

forget that.. lets talk something else.. about me , myself..
i am a self made person.. i started working from the age of 16 and my first job was as a typist. i worked as a typist for one and a half year and got promoted to marketing executive in the same firm.. resigned for some personal reasons.. and did some part time jobs.. joined in to media as a trainee editor.. joined AVM Studios as assistant editor for linear editing.. got promoted as editor for non-linear editing.. did two serials.. attended an interview for a job placed in mumbai for films - post production.. and its almost three years since i am here..

i live in a world where dreams wont come true but i still live in it.. whatever i dreamt has never come true.. and things i never dreamt of seem to be happening.. i never dreamt of buying a house in mumbai.. but it happend.. now i am a proud owner of 1bhk flat in mumbai.. it might not sound as a big deal .. but it is for me.. my parents are proud about this..

i like blue colour and black.. i like to wear jeans and t's .. i work in an industry where u dont need to wear formal..so anything would do.. i love to drink tea at a road side shop rather than in a coffe shop.. i hate going to coffe shops or five star restaurants.. i somehow feel that i dont belong to those places.. i feel so aqward.. huh.. i love to walk in the rains.. i like music.. there is some song going on in my laptop or i will be humming some song.. i love to drive my bike.. bajaj pulsar black.. i sleep late in the nights.. around 2 or 3 .. i get up late.. i work hard.. to the extent that i dont feel like having my lunch or dinner due to the hectic deadlines.. i love food.. but at the same time i eat only when i am happy.. or normal.. i dont eat when i am low.. i eat little when i am eating alone..


I dont look what I am.. I am not what I look.. WHO AM I?

this is me.. myself..